Just finished Module 1. The part about the towel and the water broke me. I've been blaming myself for not being able to leave, thinking I was weak. Realizing this is an attachment response changes everything.
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You cannot stop checking their socials. You stayed longer than you should have. You feel like the person who hurt you is the only one who can comfort you.
"A trauma bond is when the person who held your head underwater is the same person who wraps you in a towel afterward."
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Manipulation is being blamed for your reaction while nobody ever discusses what you were reacting to. Your nervous system is currently stuck trying to prove reality to someone committed to misunderstanding it.
To know if a relationship is repairable, you have to stop measuring how sorry they are, and look at what they do with the harm they caused. Right now, your self-trust is shattered.
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A trauma bond occurs when your nervous system associates the person causing you pain with the relief of that pain. They are both the water you are drowning in, and the towel you are given afterward.
Just finished Module 1. The part about the towel and the water broke me. I've been blaming myself for not being able to leave, thinking I was weak. Realizing this is an attachment response changes everything.
"Look at what they do with the harm they caused." I wrote this on my bathroom mirror today. He cried and said sorry again, but hasn't gone to a single therapy session. Actions over apologies.
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